Our decision to move to Saudi Arabia made me want to get back to my blog. Even if no one else reads me, it's a travelogue (of sorts) of our lives. The change--and oh, how I hate change--and a glimpse of a country and a culture rarely seen and often misunderstood might be more interesting than my daily lesson plans and my irritations at the driving habits of the locals here.
Then, last Friday, we joined a brand new club. I call it the "Other People" club. Chances are good you're not in this club. You know, "those people" who--and then fill in the blank. Things that always happen for better or worse to "those people." A few days before he went into surgery to remove his appendix, Mark said, "Are you worried?" And I said, "No. Bad things don't happen to us. They happen to 'other people.'" I am an inveterate worrier, one who worries about things that I really do understand will probably work out OK in the end. So, no--worrying about severe medical crises would not catch my attention. I would be saving that for disasterous airplane crashes or terrorists (also on the plane)...serious things.
Now we belong to the "Other People" chapter called "cancer." It's been 4 days since Mark was diagnosed with non-Hodgkin's lymphoma and I'm already understanding that I don't have a temporary membership. Whatever will happen, cancer has come to stay. It will lurk around the corner and raise its nasty head every time there is a health issue. Fever? Maybe it's cancer. Pain? Maybe it's cancer. Routine medical checkup? Maybe they'll find cancer.
And so we wait. Wait for the day for more tests. Then wait to see what those tests might show. Then wait for treatment to start. Then wait for treatment to end. Then wait to see if it worked. Then wait to see if it comes back. And hold the thought at bay in the back of your mind that someone might say the worst possible news of all.
Suddenly moving my family to Saudi Arabia seems much easier and much safer than the journey that we are beginning. Because I guarantee, no matter what you have ever thought about living overseas with children, whatever dangers or ills or troubles you wouldn't be willing to put up with or can't imagine why we would...it's nothing to this new place where we've found ourselves.
The blog about living life overseas will now necessarily include chapters on living life with cancer. I pray that it will be a short chapter, but I can't know that. No one can know. It is what it is, and we will be what we will be...blessed, challenged, frightened, and hopeful.
